Long distance is a bitch

(Quoted by Kedung Bulan Rachel)

Yah lor.. LD i like to call it is really a bitch lor.. u know the female dog.. ahh nvm... for some people.. long distance may feel like the end of the world loh.. and for some it would feel like a challenge/test for the couple lor.. not easy ah.. but must try la.. love mah.. wad to do..

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder lor.. hoh.. really ah.. my heart ache leh.. growing too stale already.. no la.. haha jus kidding la.. sheila still in my heart la.. hee hee..sometimes going to the airport the most saddest part lor.. where u have to leave him or her.. and say goodbye.. kiss kiss.. slap lorh if not happy.. and when they go in u feel some part of u leaving into the terminal as well lorh.. like she/he pull and drag ure heart on the floor with her/him lorh.. if not happy with them going.. hopefully can bypass security into the loading bay and throw sai(shit) at the aeroplane lorh.. hope the pilot stop the whole flight because got sai(shit) on his window and cannot take off lorh..

not easy la.. not easy.. after a few months of "heeloO.. GooD mornings! how was ure day.. mine was fine tq.. no i did not look at this girl/guy.. bla bla bla bla bla bla.."

ure convo would end up like "helo.. ... ... ... oh ok.. bye"

total change in communication lorh.. no more.. "yeahh. i love u.. bye.. muaks.. gnites.. think of me.. dream of me..i'll dream of you.."

well.. if u want a LD relationships to work.. 2 must work together.. not leave the other hanging while the other has all the fun.. u 2 are in this together.. most importantly be there when they need u the most.. one thing ive learned is not to be too clingy as in like dun call 24/7 and msg 500 sms a day lorh.. it'll not only like bother her/him like hell.. it would also cost u a bomb.. so in fact.. msg when u really need to.. restrain ureself from calling.. hold ureself back!! if u can.. if not.. call la.. call some more..

Give words of encouragement to each other.. assure each other there's no one else in their minds.. but.. but each other.. don like go.. saying hey.. "im cheating on you.. WOO HOO.." F- ah.. life's a bitch as well if that happens.. and like when got smth going on.. and ure other half calls.. don go.. "Eh eh.. busy la.. bye.." talk nicely lorh.. say.. "sorry love/dear/honey/piggy/boo boo/mr malaysia.. im quite busy now.. can u call back later.. or ill get back to u.. ok.. bye.. muaks" (*) A+ Long distance is mainly about communication lorh.. no communication means.. an empty relationship lorh.. just like marriage lorh.. how can u not talk to ure wife or husband day by day.. its just not right lorh..

but sometimes i wait and wait.. and suffer the agony of waiting each moment to pass.. still no call or msg.. i feel like GRrRrrrR.. insecurity seeps in.. deep.. ure head cannot stop thinking lorh.. u need to help ure other half clear the doubts and insecurities.. thru talking (C O M M U N I C A T I O N) hearing each others voice can be soothing as well..soothing to the ears and helps relax the muscles.. and since if ure feeling down or unhappy.. they not there for physical bonding lor.. no hugs.. no kisses.. so communication couples.. comfort them.. do not declare Cold war lorh.. if u do. heart very cold and empty in the end lorh.. until one apologizes first lorh..

it'll be a plus if u had a webcam and mic lorh.. personally u all going thru LD should use skype.. if not.. msn will do la.. and if somehow cannot remember face anymore.. can see each other lorh.. mic is so that no need to buy reload day by day lorh.. or every once in 3 - 4 days lorh and see ure phone bill like paying car loan like that.... but in my case.. my boo boo in Nilai.. so connection slow like turle la.. can see each other on skype but then.. dc every minute one.. cannot lorh.. mic when u talk.. u say hi.. it sounds like byee.. coz lag too much.. cannot lorh.. wad to do.. LD is a bitch lorh..

but i salute all who's going thru Long Distance relationships.. and i wish u all the best to you and your other half.. i hope this post very informative lor.. make u know how the other half feeling lor.. so chiaoo..